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Sunday, January 11, 2009

Happy Birthday Jesse

Arrived in Minnesota yesterday around 2pm.My nephew and his fiance picked us up at the airport, stopped to have sandwiches because we were starved. Not only do the airlines no longer serve food, but they don't even give you a bag of peanuts!
The weather is cold but tolerable. It is beautiful here and white!
Zach and Darci drove us around their neighborhood stopping at a lake close by that was frozen. People walking, dogs running, kites flying, it was fairyland. I was so excited to see my first "ice house" and fisherman. People really fish, standing in the freezing cold!Crazy.
We were excited to see Zach and Darci's home which they purchase 6 month ago or so. It is darling, charming, warm, inviting, and it feels like "home." To the basement we went where we will live for the next week. It's perfect, a bed, a computer, a sitting area with couch and TV. We could not ask for anything more.
Visited with Z and D for about an hour and then off to meet Kelsie, Savannah, Amy, and Boh for dinner. It was great to see Kelsie and her belly again, we missed them. She was beautiful, definitely uncomfortable and ready to have the baby. After dinner Jess and I took Kelsie to a coffee shop to catch up alone. So glad we had the opportunity. Great conversation, learned alot more about Kelsie and how mature and bright she is and then since Kelsie didn't know how to direct us back to the freeway we stopped at the lounge/bar where Amy was to get directions.
We stayed with Amy and Boh for a few hours talking and got home around 12pm. Five minutes after we got home Z and D came home and we visited for another hour. Late night.
Jesse is another year older today and I am celebrating him! Woke up late and had to be at brunch at noon. Kelsie invited her girlfiends Stephanie and Amy to join us and Amy invited her 2 sisters to join us. Everyone was very nice. Kind of a strange feeling being the "California couple" who have come to adopt the baby Kelsie is about to give birth to.
After brunch we went to the hospital so that they could give Kelsie prostaglandin gel. It is supposed to help ripen her cervix. She stayed in the hospital for a few hours and then they sent her home. She was dilated to 3cm and her cervix looks ready. The nurse said 50% chance she could go into labor tonight. If she does not go into labor tonight, she is to go to the hospital in the morning at 7:30am to be induced.
It was a long day, lots of emotions. Jess and I did our best to stay positive and light hearted.
When we arrived back at Zach's they had a delicious dinner ready for us and how cute are they? A chocolate chocolate birthday cake for the Jesster. We celebrated and delighted in their company.
Totally exhausted. Going to bed with our phones next to us, ready to be back at the hospital in a moments notice.
Jesse thanks you all for the birthday wishes. I promise to do my best to keep you updated as our story unfolds.
Until tomorrow...

10 comments:

  1. HURRY, HURRY, KELSIE AND BABY. WE HAVE WAITED SO LONG FOR YOU.
    HERE'S TO A HEALTHY HAPPY BABY AND A HEALTHY AND HAPPY NEW BEGINING.
    LOVE,
    MOM AND DAD ASH

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  2. Get used to being exhausted! I spent time with Kevin, Leslie and my 2 week old GODSON Cambell today and exhaustion seems to be the common theme with a newborn! But it's all worth it.

    We're all sleeping with the phone by our beds. Positive energy!!!!

    Love, J

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  3. Hey....Cherrie and I just wanted to let you know that you are both in our prayers tonight and we hope all goes well. Jess, Happy Birthday and what a great gift you are getting! Lots of hugs!

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  4. Happy Birthday Jess, and how wonderful that you will be celebrating your birthday with your son for the next couple of years. He is on his way out and I will be a Aunt again today I know it.Can't wait

    I love you guys sooo much
    Alli B

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  5. "Get used to" PURE JOY & HAPPINESS!! You are going to love EVERY second of it! You are going to be AMAZING parents :)!! xoxo

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  6. Well, how arrogant of me to want the baby to be born on MY birthday, January 6, when the better date is definitely on or around his Daddy's birthday. Happy Birthday, Dear Jesse.
    I'm looking at my clock....It's Monday morning 10:30am...By my calculations baby should be on his way.
    Love....Can't wait.....
    Auntie M

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  7. Happy after day Birthday hope everything goes well today for everyone and K does not have a bad time in the delivery room wish her the best from me. I'm really sitting on pins and needles now just waiting for the news Yikes Yikes Yikes Dad W sends late Birthday Wishes as does all the family. Nick you will make a great Mommie and Jessie you will be a great Dad.

    Love you both
    Mom and Dad W

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  8. I am so excited!

    Enjoy each moment with each other.
    Love you,
    Cousin Amy

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  9. Happy Belated Birthday Jessie! What a wonderful b-day gift to receive, a baby! Enjoy your last night as a family of TWO, cuz those days are gonna be over...it is soon gonna be the THREE of you!
    With love and hugs,
    Meg (and Hayden)

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  10. Congratulations!
    The process of waiting in the hospital lobby is a wonderful way of witnessing the arrival of your baby because you are given the gift of being part of his arrival from the beginning of his journey on this earth. You both are there and eventually as time goes by, you both will be able to share this wonderful story with your son based on first hand experiences.
    Wow!
    This unique experience will make the connection between the 3 of you stronger and will enrich your family history.
    Remember, enjoy the journey and keep visualizing the destination: your goal of getting back to Cavanagh with your baby to start a new journey together as a family.
    Your neighbors are all here waiting with open arms!!!
    Happy Birthday to daddy and son!
    Love,
    Nilsa and Ivan

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